其实一个人要对做到对自己坦诚比做到对别人坦诚更艰难、当一个人决定对自己真正坦诚时才是真正的成长、让一个人去完全面对和接受自己是一件很残忍的事情、尤其是人性那阴暗的一面、

不知道为什么说到自我的坦诚就想起了《长岛的雪》

就仿佛在在黑暗中摸索了不知道多久的人，突然重获光明，而后发现一条笔直的大路就摆在你的面前、只要你愿意往前走、有够你观赏和享受一生的风景、这或许不失为一件值得庆幸的事、至于那些风景里有没有你当初着迷的那一抹风景却已不再重要、

所谓秘密，无非也就是不能够说穿的事、因为说也无用，既然说出来也无法解决、那又何必说、有人说这是悲观主义者，但是倘若没有经历那种悲痛、有又谁愿意做一个悲观的人、

其实这还有一种解释方式、可以从人的懒惰性来解释、我想人生来都是喜欢简单的事物，没人愿意去用脑或是费劲，所以一开始当一个人对另一个人说一件事时，通常后者都会选择相信、但是当后者发现其实他被欺骗后、他也许会选择不再相信，或许还是会继续相信，

但终于有一天他发现他其实一直是一个被欺骗者时，他自然会选择改变、哪怕这个改变会让他不再像以前那么轻松简单、甚至要费劲心思的去分辨别人对他的一切所作所为，但是除了这样他别无选择、

以前有人给我说我以后肯定要吃自己的亏、一条路走到死、哪怕是撞了南墙大不了拆了接着走、现在我才懂得假如愿意放下心中的执念、能够走的路其实很多、也许那些路上没有你想要捕捉的那风景、但是路那么长，风景那么多、肯定会有其它同样美丽的风景

不动的是风景、但人却可以选择自己看的景！

一个人只有摔到了谷底，全身是伤痛到了麻木的忘掉了一切，才能够真正的改变、如果不能够改变那一定是摔的不够重、

骚年你寂寞了

这个世界从来都是都是一群装傻的人再陪一群真傻的人玩，可是到了最后你也不清楚你是真傻还是在装傻

一下子就突然冬天零下了，外面下着淋漓的小雨，发现这种天气真的很适合听枪花的歌，下课回来后就一直循环的2首歌曲
November rain
When I look into your eyes
I can see a love restrained
But darlin' when I hold you
Don't you know I feel the same
'Cause nothin' lasts forever
And we both know hearts can change
And it's hard to hold a candle
In the cold November rain
We've been through this such a long long time
Just tryin' to kill the pain
But lovers always come and lovers always go
An no one's really sure who's lettin' go today
Walking away
If we could take the time to lay it on the line
I could rest my head
Just knowin' that you were mine
All mine
So if you want to love me
then darlin' don't refrain
Or I'll just end up walkin'
In the cold November rain
Do you need some time...on your own
Do you need some time...all alone
Everybody needs some time...on their own
Don't you know you need some time...all alone
I know it's hard to keep an open heart
When even friends seem out to harm you
But if you could heal a broken heart
Wouldn't time be out to charm you
Sometimes I need some time...on my
own Sometimes I need some time...all alone
Everybody needs some time...on their own
Don't you know you need some time...all alone
And when your fears subside
And shadows still remain, ohhh yeahhh
I know that you can love me
When there's no one left to blame
So never mind the darkness
We still can find a way
'Cause nothin' lasts forever
Even cold November rain
Don't ya think that you need somebody
Don't ya think that you need someone
Everybody needs somebody
You're not the only one
You're not the only one


talk to me softly.
there s something in your eyes!
don t hang your head in sorrow
and please don t cry!
i know how you feel inside
i ve been there before
somethin s changin inside you!
and don t you know?
don t you cry tonight!
i still love you baby!
don t you cry tonight!
don t you cry tonight!
there s a heaven above you baby!
and don t you cry tonight!
give me a whisper.
and give me a sigh.
give me a kiss!
before you tell me goodbye!
don t you take it so hard now!
and please don t take it so bad!
i ll still be thinking of you!
and the times we had...baby.
and don t you cry tonight!

记得初中那会特别着迷SHE、不过现在好多年都没怎么听了，就是觉得她们的歌越来越儿歌了、结果刚才听到了《找不到》，蛋还是依旧的疼、还真是没办法啊！