I would never say anything mean to others. Have some empathy. But the meanest comment I got was from my ex. I wouldn't share what it was, but it truly hurts when someone you care deeply attacks you. Right on your weakest spot.
It probably doesn't matter what others said to you, but rather WHO said it. We could manage to brush off mean tweets from trolls. But we can never overlook degrading comments from our loved ones.
the ubiquity of online media has brought us something revolutionary. It allows people to communicate in a more tolerable way. consequently participant is more likely to be vocally assaulted. i consider this assault an inconsiderable price to pay to achieve true free speech. one goal of this post is to reveal how often people can be mean. so we will be emotionally prepared years down the road. and technically equipped with the powerful counter attack
moreover, online media allows a person to establish a persona which might not be same as the one in their daily life. Donald Trump is a pioneer of communicating online in a manner which will be conceived overly candid and bold in real life. his tweets that campaign his presidency or attack the countries he dislikes or insult his election rivals often blow everyone s minds away. But people will miss it if the suceeding president doesn't do that. online persona is like a culture thing. you can't be cool without it. this post gives a person some options to stop being that sheepish, miserable, vulnerable always kind always friendly good guy he/she might not really want to be
civilized doesn't mean people no longer feel the emotion of anger, hatred, betrayal, frustration, disdain. civilization makes people sophisticated. expressing a unpleasant emotion is carried out by a way other than swearing. imaging writing a novel, a short story or a comic, a sophisticated character is usually what we want to create. this post demonstrates how to express an emotion with subtlety and wit. so is this post about trolling. there is a lot more than that.